Don Jon (2013)

Joseph Gordon-Levitt's directorial debut, *Don Jon* (2013), introduces us to Jon Martello, a charismatic New Jersey guy who, despite his dedication to family, friends, and church, harbors a secret addiction to online pornography. This habit cultivates increasingly unrealistic expectations for intimacy and sex, creating a significant disconnect between his digital fantasies and his real-world relationships. As Jon navigates a series of superficial encounters, he grapples with an unsatisfying emptiness, always chasing the impossible ideal presented on his screen, ultimately making him question what true happiness and connection truly entail. While not a conventional rom-com, *Don Jon* earns its place on a "Best Romance movies" list by boldly dissecting the very foundations of modern intimacy and love. Jon's journey begins as he attempts to build a relationship with Barbara (Scarlett Johansson), a woman equally burdened by her own media-fed ideals, albeit from the world of romantic comedies. However, it's through an unexpected and deeper connection with Esther (Julianne Moore) that Jon is truly challenged to confront his preconceived notions and learn the true meaning of vulnerability, communication, and authentic intimacy. The film masterfully portrays Jon's struggle to transcend his superficial desires and truly *see* and connect with another person, showing that real love is built on honesty, understanding, and the courage to be imperfect – making it a uniquely relevant and powerful romantic story for the digital age.